I'll Have What She's Having
by Women Who Know How to Stir the Pot





Photo credit Julia Weber

Photo credit Julia Weber

Timothy Malcolm, Houstonia

One Way to Think About Mental Health: Zero-Proof Cocktails

WellWeek is an opportunity for people to talk about mental health, whether in the kitchen, front of house, or bar, or outside of restaurants and in everyday life.

$1 from every zero-proof drink sold will benefit the National Alliance on Mental Health-Greater Houston, Mental Health of America-Greater Houston, and the Southern Smoke Foundation. (As an alternative to a cocktail, an establishment can make a dessert or designate a menu item for WellWeek purposes.)

Crowl hopes that by putting more zero-proof cocktails on menus across the city, customers see them as viable options when dining. The message: When you’re out, and maybe you’re not feeling so great, don’t ever feel like you have to drink alcohol.

Photo by Robert Jacob Lerma

Photo by Robert Jacob Lerma

Erin Smith, Food and Wine

How to be Pregnant in the Restaurant Industry

Throughout my career I’ve had formative discussions with other female chefs about how to be a woman in this industry. Those conversations and the advice within them were invaluable in helping me navigate my career with grace and respect. I wonder if my husband was ever advised on how to navigate his career as a man. I doubt it. 

We have one office in our restaurant. It will soon double as a pump room. I even plan to have a sign made that when lit says “Pump Room: Enter at your own risk!” Yes, I realize that will be inconvenient for others. So. Is. Breastfeeding. Deal with it.

Photo credit  Nobie’s Houston

Photo credit Nobie’s Houston

Maria Yagoda, Food and Wine

Houston Hospitality Industry Bands Together for Mental Illness Awareness Week

Awareness of mental illness within the restaurant industry is at an all-time high, yet countless people serving drinks, making food, and waiting tables continue to lack the resources and support they need to get help, let alone talk about these issues. From October 7 to 13, the Houston-based grassroots organization I'll Have What She's Having aims to amplify the conversation and chip away at the stigma that, quite literally, kills, throwing a week-long series of events called #WellWeek.

Morgan Childs, Saveur

In Texas, female food professionals and physicians are joining together to fight for better healthcare.

I’ll Have What She’s Having is an initiative that fights for female healthcare through good food. The group began to coalesce in the wake of the 2016 election and has ambitions to extend its outreach across the region and, later, the United States as a whole. The group has served as a platform to launch emerging talent by placing its industry stalwarts in mentorship roles with up-and-comers.

Julie Soefer Photography

Julie Soefer Photography

Mimi Faucett Trahan, Houston Modern Luxury

Meet Dr. Lori Choi Of Houston's Nonprofit I'll Have What She's Having.

An organization uniting women chefs, hospitality pros, entrepreneurs and other professionals in social activism through a network of collaborative pop-up dinners. What began as a mentorship program has grown into a fledgling nonprofit and raised a quarter-million dollars for local causes, specifically relating to women’s health.

Eric Sandler, Culturemap

Houston's top chefs cook up a fab feast and much-needed funds for local food workers

A little rain couldn't dampen the spirits of attendees at this second annual event, which raised over $10,000 to fund preventive medical care for uninsured restaurant workers. The event honored Liz Fenton, a food writer and passionate culinary enthusiast who volunteered for numerous charitable causes

Chris Clarke, Something about Food podcast

It isn’t just food, it’s people, their connections to what they eat and us.

Dr. Lori Choi is a vascular surgeon and one of the founding members of women’s health advocacy and education group “I’ll Have What She’s Having”. She understands restaurant life, gets why chocolate cake should be sweet and not too dense, and is fighting for women’s reproductive rights and access to high quality, affordable health care in the US.

photo courtesy Clark Cooper concepts

photo courtesy Clark Cooper concepts

Timothy Malcolm, Houstonia

This Event Wants to Get People Talking about the Women in Houston’s Kitchens: As we prepare to celebrate mothers, a look at how dynamics have—and have not—changed in the food service industry.

“I can honestly say I’ve seen change,” says Wild. “But it’s like watching bread rise or water boil how long it’s taking. It’s women like myself who are standing up and saying ‘I’m gonna open a business that’s going to allow for my child to be with them.’ Or ‘I’m gonna have a staff that’s cross-trained so I don’t have to stay ‘til the 16th hour, because someone else can step in.’”

Shiva Patel DiVirgilio, preparing once again to open a new restaurant—the new version of The Queen Vic—is already planning with change in mind, setting up training and mentoring sessions, and potentially operating on a non-traditional schedule that’s more responsive to workers’ physical, emotional, and mental needs.

photo credit  Carla Gomez

photo credit Carla Gomez

Cat Modlin-Jackson, Edible Houston

IHWSH: Cool Chicks on a Mission for Women's Healthcare

What started as a fundraising effort has blossomed into an alliance of about 100 chefs, farmers, doctors and activists united to make the dearth of women’s healthcare in Texas literally palatable. In less than a year the group has raised thousands of dollars for thousands of mothers, daughters, sisters and wives whose biology demands everything from tampons to checkups to lifesaving treatment. Over the course of one evening, chefs and bartenders from the ranks of celebrity to up-andcomer will work elbow to elbow to host a three-part extravaganza. Proceeds from every sip, nibble and bite will go to four organizations that break down barriers to women’s healthcare.


Greg Morago, Houston Chronicle

Culinary couple gives back by focusing their volunteer and fund-raising efforts

Erin and Patrick Feges, the owners of Feges BBQ, chose to focus their efforts on causes that were dear to their hearts: women’s health awareness and military veterans. A founding member of the organization, Erin now works alongside other powerful women in the Houston culinary community to counter what they consider legislative attacks on women’s health and health care initiatives in Texas. “A lot of it had to do with the 2016 elections,” Erin said. “Just knowing that the time was changing, and we were facing new challenges on how our government views women’s health and the cost of women’s health. If we don’t start doing something now and talking about it now, it might be too late.”

Photo by Robert Jacob Lerma

Joy Sewing, Houston Chronicle

Physician joins local chefs to raise awareness for women’s health

If Dr. Lori Choi could change the world, she would want every woman to have adequate health care.

“I truly believe our health-care system is broken. Texas has the highest number of uninsured women in the nation. Many are working 80-100 hours a week, but can’t afford their health insurance. We’re focused on the barriers they face from equal pay in the restaurant business to lack of awareness about their own health.”

Mary Clarkson, Culture Map

Fab female chefs serve up divine dishes for Houston

IHWSH celebrated under the chandeliers at The Dunlavy and raised $8,500 for Shades of Blue Project, a local non-profit committed to helping uninsured women gain access to the psychiatric help they need when dealing with post-partum depression. This illness affects as many as one in four minority women, according to organizers, and bringing awareness is near and dear to IHWSH. The event paired non-alcoholic beverages with each course to celebrate WellWeek, IHWSH's spotlight on mental health. The mocktails were incredibly creative and flavorful by Anvil bartender Kehlen Scott. Chefs Jane Wild (The Dunlavy), Jill Bartolome (Aqui), and Dawn Burrell (Kulture) prepared an impressive, seven-course meal.

Timothy Malcolm, Houstonia

$11K Raised at Depressed Cake Shop 2018

IT’S WELL WEEK, an opportunity to talk about mental health issues across the city’s hospitality industry. The week kicked off on Sunday with the sixth annual Depressed Cake Shop Houston, which raised $11,000 for NAMI Greater Houston and the Montrose Center. About 400 people attended Depressed Cake Shop at Silver Street Studios. Chefs—including Julia Doran of Nancy’s Hustle, Jody Stevens of jodycakes, Ruth Gonzales of Coltivare, and Victoria Dearmond of One Fifth and UB Preserv - baked treats decorated in grays, black, and blues, symbolizing the darkness felt by people struggling with mental health issues. Guests purchased the goods available, while experts from NAMI Greater Houston and the Montrose Center offered assistance to those seeking treatment.

Holly Beretto, Houston Food Finder

Houston Organization Raising Money For Women’s Health Hosts Father’s Day Barbecue

Houston-based organization I’ll Have What She’s Having (IHWSH) is hosting a barbecue to honor two things: dads and women’s health. The First Annual Father’s Day Cookout is a classic summer outdoor party that benefits the Liz Fenton Purse Snacks Fund that assists uninsured women in Houston’s hospitality industry. The Father’s Day event highlights male chefs who support the organization’s mission: Mallory Buford of Tacos a Go Go, Alvin Schultz from Eat.Drink.Experience, Wade Elkins of Feges BBQ and Otto Sanchez from La Table. Chris Poldoian from Camerata is coordinating beverages.

Erin Smith, IHWSH member and co-owner of Feges BBQ with her husband Patrick Feges, is excited to have so many guys on the roster. “Ever since we did our first event, men have reached out to us telling us they wanted to get involved,” she said. “We definitely wanted to be sure, as an organization, that we were not being exclusive. It was also important to us that we started from a place where women were not only involved but leading. There’s no doubt, though, that we wanted our brother chefs and entrepreneurs to be part of this. Father’s Day provided the perfect opportunity.”

Photo credit  Jack O’Patrny

Photo credit Jack O’Patrny

Eric Sandler, Culturemap

Celebrity chefs and Houston culinary stars stir up support for local women

Some events stand out enough that, at least in the moment, it feels like people will be talking about them for a long time. Such was the case with I'll Have What She's Having gala, Something for Everyone. Held at Evelyn's Park in Bellaire, the event united almost all of Houston's top female culinary talent to raise over $100,000 for four health organizations: Legacy Community Health, Texas Children’s Hospital, The Rose, and Planned Parenthood Gulf Coast. 


Abner Fletcher, Houston Matters

Chefs And Doctors Team Up To Address Women’s Health Issues

Local surgeon Dr. Lori Choi talks about I’ll Have What She’s Having, an organization addressing women’s health issues through the combined efforts of area chefs, restaurateurs, and physicians.


'I'll Have What She's Having' fundraiser features top female chefs

"I'll Have What She's Having," Houston's all-female organization of chefs, small business owners, restaurant professionals and physicians raising funds to advance local women's health, invites the community to a unique dining experience to support Houston women's health.


Eric Sandler, Culturemap

Chefs uniting for women's health makes for a more serious podcast

Although "What's Eric Eating" is usually a lighthearted conversation, this week's episode has a more serious tone as chef Erin Smith Feges and Dr. Lori Choi (whose husband is Agricole Hospitality co-owner Ryan Pera) join CultureMap food editor Eric Sandler to discuss I'll Have What She's Having, a new organization that's uniting women in the hospitality industry for the cause of raising money for and awareness of women's health issues.

Gwendolyn Knapp, Houston Press

This Week in Harvey Relief: The "I'll Have What She's Having" Pop-Up Heats Up This Fall

"I’ll Have What She’s Having, an all-female organization of chefs, restaurateurs, hospitality professionals and physicians bringing awareness (and funds) to women's health issues after Harvey via a series of monthly pop-ups, has raised more than $5,000 and a wealth of feminine hygiene products for women in Greater Northeast Houston affected by Harvey, along with even more funds for the Hurricane Harvey Relief Fund Program at Planned Parenthood Gulf Coast."


Amy McCarthy, Eater Houston

A Group of Houston’s Best Chefs Plot Pop-Ups To Raise Money For Planned Parenthood

"A consortium of Houston chefs and hospitality professionals have joined forces to raise money and awareness of women’s health issues in support of Planned Parenthood and reproductive justice.

More than 20 of the city’s most prominent chefs, restaurateurs, and industry professionals have formed I’ll Have What She’s Having, including founder Monica Pope, Pondicheri’s Anita Jaisinghani, Karen Man (formerly of Oxheart) and pastry chef Victoria Dearmond. Throughout the coming months, the group will host a series of pop-up dinners and a gala that will raise funds for Planned Parenthood."


Kate McLean, Houstonia Magazine

A New Pop-Up Series Highlights Women’s Health

"We’d need the length of a rap album to list all the industry ladies you have and have not heard of that are participating in I ’ll Have What She’s Having, the newly minted Houston organization of women chefs, hospitality professionals, entrepreneurs, physicians, scientists and artists."

But what you need to know is that it kicks off its dinner pop-up series, A Taste of Things to Come, today at Coltivare at 6:30 p.m. The goal is to raise community awareness and funds in support of women’s health. The goal for this year? $1 million. The goal for years to come? Getting back the funding for our healthcare. "